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Southside Faith Communities Public Statement of Support for our Neighbors and Friends

Southside Faith Communities
Public Statement of Support for our Neighbors and Friends
October 12, 2023

As we write this, we know that both Israelis and Palestinians are living in a state of terror, as war rains down on civilians on both sides. We also know that the horrific violence in Israel and Gaza is exacerbating the fear of Jews, Muslims, and Palestinians living around the world, including here in Birmingham. As an interfaith organization, we focus our energies on what unites us, because unity is how we bring about transformational change in Birmingham and beyond.

With one voice, we condemn all acts of terror. The actions of Hamas this past week were indefensible, targeting Israeli young people, families, and children, and endangering the lives of the Palestinian people by calling down war upon them.

While we do not all agree on the political issues involved, these things we agree on:

● Children should never be considered allowable collateral damage.

● The elderly and disabled and unarmed civilians should be off limits.

● Celebrating the death of enemies is antithetical to our faithful calls to peace.

● Human rights abuses should not be tolerated; kidnapping, rape, depriving citizens of basic survival needs, including freedom of movement.

● Our Jewish, Muslim, and Christian neighbors in Birmingham are suffering, and many are afraid. They are afraid for their families still abroad, and they are afraid for their safety in Birmingham.

We condemn all acts of terrorism on our Jewish, Muslim, and Christian neighbors, including threats to our houses of worship, like the recent threat to Temple Emanu-El. We condemn anti-Semitism and hate in all its forms.

Each of us, in our own traditions, is challenged to love our neighbor and honor our common humanity. Each life lost is a tragedy and each day that war threatens and disintegrates is a stain on our collective soul. We pray for all of those who have lost loved ones. We pray for justice as described by the prophet Zechariah: God’s command to administer true justice, showing mercy and compassion to one another.

It’s times like these that we need to consciously choose love. Love will be our strength and our uniting force. We choose empathy and we choose justice over hatred and perpetual retaliation.

We believe in Birmingham. We believe we can rally one another and support one another even as we watch the devastation abroad. We can be a model of peace, as we pray and work for peace in the most troubled parts of this world.

Beloved Community is proud to be a member of the Southside Interfaith Communities and to endorse these words.

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You’ve Got Stuff to Do! [part 2]: A Reflection from Rev. Dollie Howell Pankey

In Part 1, I mentioned one gift I received amid the difficulties of 2020, the pandemic year. That gift was greater clarity about how to bring my diverse gifts and passions together into something beautiful. I left that encounter energized because I realized, “I’ve got stuff to do!” That realization began to awaken me from the lethargy that had hung over my life. Additionally, it underscored for me the importance of how I attend to life each day. I offered these words at the end of Part 1, “We must SHOW UP and SHORE UP so we can SHOW OUT! Let me explain what I mean by that.

Recognizing that we’ve got stuff to do, first, is to SHOW UP. To show up is to be Present. In Matthew 6:34 from The Message version of the Bible, Eugene Peterson offers this rendering of Jesus’ words: “Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.” Being present, in ways large and small, means being where we are supposed to be and do what we are supposed to do in the moment!

Yes, that means doing the simple routine tasks of taking care of our bodies, minds, and soul. It means paying those bills, getting to and through work, family commitments, classes, and other commitments. It has become figuring out how to navigate virtual spaces, keeping track of endless days, navigating the safety and the care of our families during the pandemic, and trying to maintain connection in an isolating world. However, it is more than that; getting to where God needs us to be tomorrow begins with being where we are supposed to be and doing what we are supposed to do today.

Nancy Sales sent a note of appreciation for the message of Part 1. She noted that she is focusing on answering the question of what the right stuff is to do in this season. That is at the core of being present. To what are we to be present? To what do we give our heart, times, and energies? I’ll borrow this powerful quote from Frederick Buechner, “The place where God calls you is where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.” 

To me, this means that God has already placed an awareness in us of that work to which we are called. It is work that brings us joy while speaking to needs around us. Answering this call, recognizing the “stuff” we’ve got to do, however, requires that we show up and respond to that call, that we respond to that work, on an ongoing basis. This major matter is that of being present to God and God’s direction and of being in place so that we are in position to take hold of opportunities when they land in our laps. We cannot do the “stuff” God calls us to do if we are not first present.

 Secondly, recognizing that we’ve got stuff to do is to SHORE UP. Shoring up is a matter of PREPARATION. While I was Chaplain at Miles College, I frequently shared these words with my students in College Forum assemblies to communicate my expectations: “New habits for new places!” Where we are now is not where we will be later in life. There are new places into which God calls us, new “stuff” God calls us to do (or to do in a deeper or expanded way). 

These new places and this new “stuff” call for something new in us. They may call for new habits, new ways of being, new skills, or new attitudes. In other words, it means always being willing to wonder and dream, “What’s next?” because life in God calls us to live with a sense of, “What’s next?” It’s the sentiment I hear echoed in “I Hope You Dance,” recorded by Lee Ann Womack:

I hope ou never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat, but always keep that hunger . . .
Promise me that you’ll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance,
I hope you dance [i]

Regardless of our age or stage in life, each stage of life requires preparation; so, it becomes important to learn the lessons that today offers, that each moment brings. Focusing on a past we cannot change or a future we have yet to see is a distraction; instead, let us focus on what we need to know and learn and see today. As Matthew 6:34 says, “Today has enough troubles of its own.” That verse in The Message reads, “Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. …” We do well to attend to this day so that we are prepared for whatever is next in this amazing journey with God.

Finally, recognizing that we’ve got stuff to do is to SHOW OUT. Showing out is a matter of PURPOSE. To SHOW OUT is not to be egotistical or boastful. To SHOW OUT is to find the ‘why’ behind our excitement; it is to know God’s purpose and how we fit into it. Many of us are familiar with the King James Version of Matthew 6:33, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God.” The Message says it this way, “Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative….” 

Why? Because our purpose is all about what God is doing, about the reality God seeks to bring into being, about how God sees humanity and the world. As we center ourselves in the purpose of God, our purpose will SHOW OUT in our daily living. God’s purpose will shine in us. I do believe that when God’s opportune time (kairos) has come, the “stuff” we’re supposed to do will SHOW OUT in our lives if we SHOW UP and SHORE ourselves UP today. I close with these lyrics from the Disney musical Hercules to encourage each of us who realizes, “I’ve got stuff to do!”

And I won’t look back, I can go the distance
And I’ll stay on track, no, I won’t accept defeat
It’s an uphill slope, but I won’t lose hope
Till I go the distance, and my journey is complete[ii]

Lyricist: David Zippel [iii]

So, “DON’T WORRY about tomorrow!” Attend to today so that you are present with the preparation to meet your purpose. SHOW UP and SHORE UP so you can SHOW OUT!

Reverend Dollie Howell Pankey
Beloved Theomusicologist-in-Residence
April 2021 Musical Notes Reflection

[i] https://genius.com/Lee-ann-womack-i-hope-you-dance-lyrics
[ii] http://www.songlyrics.com/disney/go-the-distance-lyrics/
[iii] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Go_the_Distance

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You’ve Got Stuff to Do! [part 1]: A Reflection from Rev. Dollie Howell Pankey

On January 5, 2021, I pulled up this mediation that I gave for a chapel service a few months ago, intending to offer it as a message as we started a new year; then the insurrection at the United States Capitol occurred. This piece fell by the wayside amid the upheaval of that event and the clear messages it communicated about the state of our nation.

All of this was on top of the year that 2020 had been for us. Today, as I have returned to this meditation, we are already 1/2 of the way through the third month of 2021. We have now even marked the one-year anniversary of mandated shutdowns across the United States as the COVID-19 pandemic took hold of this country. None of us could have imagined a year ago what this year would bring for us or the multiplied losses we would face in navigating the pandemic journey. The year 2020 was a surprising year with many difficulties.

However, even the year 2020, as difficult as it was for us, brought with it some gifts. A major gift I experienced in 2020 was the opportunity to participate in a series of “thought exchanges” led by a clergy friend who is a coach for women who desire to become spiritual entrepreneurs. In working through her process, I experienced a new level of clarity about how my various gifts and passions could come together into something beautiful. Some of that has been reflected in my work here at Beloved.

As the focus of the work I am now entering became clearer, that realization stirred an excitement in me that said, “I want to be around to live out my gifts more fully!” Realizing that helped me understand that I need to do more, especially in the age of COVID-19, to preserve my well-being so I CAN be around and so I CAN function well to live out the dreams God has planted in me. The words that leapt in my heart were simply, “I’ve got stuff to do!”

It is a message that I want to offer to you as well. YOU’VE got stuff to do! As this thought echoed in my imagination, my mind was drawn to the message in Matthew 6:25-34 from the Sermon on the Mount, especially the final two verses. Here, Jesus is inviting us to not look at the future, that is, tomorrow, through the lens of worry.

o   Don’t worry about your life, about what to eat or drink or wear (Mt. 6:25).

o   Can you add to life by worrying? NO (Mt. 6:27)!

o   Why worry (Mt. 6:28)?

o   Don’t worry (Mt. 6:31).

Rather, Jesus invites us to look at tomorrow—that is, to look at the future—through the lens of hopefulness, through the lens of expectation. This is what began to surface in my soul during those experiences, a sense of expectation that made me want to get to tomorrow so I can live out all that’s in my heart to do. The question then becomes, “If worry has been taken off the table as a lens through which to look to the future, how then do we look to the future?”

When you have recognized that you’ve got stuff to do, you look to the future by attending to today because expectation (hope) for tomorrow brings with it a certain urgency about today! And so, how we attend to today matters because we’ve got stuff to do! My mantra for attending to today is this: We must SHOW UP and SHORE UP so we can SHOW OUT!

Part 2 is coming soon; so, be sure to come back to this page! While you’re waiting, remember that you’ve got stuff to do!

Reverend Dollie Howell Pankey
Beloved Theomusicologist-in-Residence
March 2021 Musical Notes Reflection


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